In today's love game, are we all just monkeys doing the same dance? Do we, as civilized adults, know what to do or even simply where to start in the dating world?
With the definition of a normal middle-aged person ever changing from the one that you must be married and have a family, what is expected of us this day in age?
Most people claim that these dating sites have worked for them and have landed them some decent dates, but why is today's society so hung up on dating? If you're not physically going on dates does that mean you are not dating? Just because one may be holding out for the right person, instead of hitting every fast food joint on the way to the restaurant, does that make them lonely and not dating? A boring prude? What is considered the thing to be doing in today's dating scene? And is it a different thing depending on age or is age not a factor as much now than it has been in the past?
In my opinion, dating is the thing humans do to find love. It's how we weed out what's not for us to find what we like most and want to stick with. It's the way we find "the one" and not just the one for the moment. When people say, 'I'm not looking for someone to settle down with', are they telling the truth? I mean, why else would you be dating someone then? Why be with a person and act like things are working for you two but actively seek out other people? If its working, why complain? Or why have any emotional attachments toward another person?
Just a thought...
Xoxo Rockie
Tuesday, May 22, 2012
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